What Everybody Ought To Know About Willpower and Friendship
											
											
											Unfortunately, my own fierce focus does not, as it turns out, have much reach into--say--other people's minds, hearts or souls.
My willpower is completely vulnerable, useless and stripped of power when it comes to influencing ?other people?.
(Which is good because we all probably need several reminders a day that life isn't about control.)												
											
											
										
										
									Get Rid of Your Friends Once And For All
											
											
											We can settle for a card instead of a birthday lunch.
A text instead of a call.
A "next time" instead of a "yes, I'll be there".												
											
											
										
										
									

